This is an anonymous question sent in by a member who does not want their name disclosed. Please be thoughtful with your responses, as these are usually tough questions to ask and answer.

I've only been at my company for seven months but we're a small startup and a lot has happened since I joined. Not only have I taken on a great deal of responsibility, I've also started managing other engineers. While I'm really enjoying my work and don't mind the long hours, I'm wondering if I should be asking for a raise.

Half the people I talk to say that I should wait until the one year mark (and use these responsibilities as part of a super strong argument), but the other half say I should address it immediately. I don't want to 'sell myself short' but I also don't want to come off as a selfish team player. And when it comes down to it, I'm perfectly happy with how much I'm making now. Have you been in this situation before?